Let's Unmask

How many of us put up artificial barriers to keep out those we dislike, or perhaps tend to distrust, or even fear? One way to do this is to look disinterested when facing others. We practice our deadpan looks and our poker faces. We might even learn to walk around with a scowl on our faces. I suppose this is a form of communication, but it is not one that is conducive to relating to others.

Have you ever tried smiling at a stranger? Many times you can elicit a smile in return. Sometimes it is so shocking that people smile as a natural reaction before they can get their guard up. Sometimes it can lead to an exchange of pleasantries. Sometimes it can even lead to conversations. Who knows what can develop from there? Perhaps we have won a new friend. At the very least, it has improved the day for two people.

Children react beautifully to a smile. Even babies who do not yet talk will smile when someone smiles at them. I know we have to teach our children to be careful around strangers, but must we also take away their innocence and trust of others. Many children today need a smile. They get enough screaming and hollering at home.

When I was still teaching, I made it a practice to smile and say "Hello" to every student I passed on campus. Many did not react in kind, but many did. I'm sure there are still people who don't remember my name, but recall when the Old Professor smiled at them and said "Hello." I know that I remember occasions when it happened to me.

So go out and smile at someone today. It's the beginning of communication.